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	<description>A Recalcitrant Wife and Mother Tells All</description>
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		<title>Comment on Awwwwwkward by MM</title>
		<link>http://beardediris.wordpress.com/2009/05/13/awwwwwkward/#comment-525</link>
		<dc:creator>MM</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Nov 2009 23:01:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey, Iris.

If you liked Awkward Family Photos you may like it&#039;s charming cousin, My Parents Were Awesome:

http://myparentswereawesome.tumblr.com/page/13

sweet.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey, Iris.</p>
<p>If you liked Awkward Family Photos you may like it&#8217;s charming cousin, My Parents Were Awesome:</p>
<p><a href="http://myparentswereawesome.tumblr.com/page/13" rel="nofollow">http://myparentswereawesome.tumblr.com/page/13</a></p>
<p>sweet.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Footballing by Iris</title>
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		<dc:creator>Iris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2009 21:04:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oooh, wish we didn&#039;t live so far away and I could go with you! Those were the days, my friend! Thanks for reading! Miss you,

-Iris</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oooh, wish we didn&#8217;t live so far away and I could go with you! Those were the days, my friend! Thanks for reading! Miss you,</p>
<p>-Iris</p>
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		<title>Comment on Footballing by StuckintheMiddle</title>
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		<dc:creator>StuckintheMiddle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Nov 2009 23:22:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve tried it all and have come to the conclusion that there is no distracting from a football game.  I go to the movies...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve tried it all and have come to the conclusion that there is no distracting from a football game.  I go to the movies&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Comment on A Night to Remember by pocketpussy</title>
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		<dc:creator>pocketpussy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2009 20:05:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>sounds like you had a great party regardless of the cream mishap.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>sounds like you had a great party regardless of the cream mishap.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Sins of the Mother by blueheron</title>
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		<dc:creator>blueheron</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Oct 2009 13:41:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>well this is exactly why these awards are counter-productive.  what is being rewarded here is compliance which looks a lot like complacency to me.  Search around the NYTimes for last week or so on a new theory of education that promotes imaginative play as a way to teach children the &quot;executive function&quot;  -- ultimately makes them responsible for their own behavior, and in the long run makes them more responsible, self-motivated adults. 
 These gold stars, extra prizes, being p&#039;s pal etc mean that one has been sitting in one&#039;s seat, raising one&#039;s hand, SUCKING UP.  if you think about it long enough you know how Nazi Germany got to the point of following all orders from above.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>well this is exactly why these awards are counter-productive.  what is being rewarded here is compliance which looks a lot like complacency to me.  Search around the NYTimes for last week or so on a new theory of education that promotes imaginative play as a way to teach children the &#8220;executive function&#8221;  &#8212; ultimately makes them responsible for their own behavior, and in the long run makes them more responsible, self-motivated adults.<br />
 These gold stars, extra prizes, being p&#8217;s pal etc mean that one has been sitting in one&#8217;s seat, raising one&#8217;s hand, SUCKING UP.  if you think about it long enough you know how Nazi Germany got to the point of following all orders from above.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Sins of the Mother by MM</title>
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		<dc:creator>MM</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Oct 2009 08:33:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Stupid awards. 

Stupid Amanda. I&#039;m imagining the kid in Addams Family Values ( Harmony from Buffy the Vampire Slayer), the popular blonde from the wealthy family who delights in excluding the &quot;different&quot; kids at camp. Wednesday Addams was always the coolest, smartest kid anyway. 

But seriously - Principal Pal? Isn&#039;t that like a nark or police informer? 

Funny funny funny. Thanks, Morticia - I mean Iris.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Stupid awards. </p>
<p>Stupid Amanda. I&#8217;m imagining the kid in Addams Family Values ( Harmony from Buffy the Vampire Slayer), the popular blonde from the wealthy family who delights in excluding the &#8220;different&#8221; kids at camp. Wednesday Addams was always the coolest, smartest kid anyway. </p>
<p>But seriously &#8211; Principal Pal? Isn&#8217;t that like a nark or police informer? </p>
<p>Funny funny funny. Thanks, Morticia &#8211; I mean Iris.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Sins of the Mother by Iris</title>
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		<dc:creator>Iris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 13:24:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You are brilliant KC. It IS a little bit icky! I am clearly vying for the wrong kind of award here. Or as they say in certain circles... going to the hardware store for bread. What a waste of my time, talent, and treasure. Thanks hon!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You are brilliant KC. It IS a little bit icky! I am clearly vying for the wrong kind of award here. Or as they say in certain circles&#8230; going to the hardware store for bread. What a waste of my time, talent, and treasure. Thanks hon!</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Sins of the Mother by KC</title>
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		<dc:creator>KC</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2009 22:02:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Y&#039;know - the whole title &quot;principal pal&quot; is just a little bit icky isn&#039;t it? What exactly are they implying? It&#039;s kind of inappropriate for a grown man or woman to have little kids as &quot;pals&quot; don&#039;t you think? Is this some kind of Michael Jackson Award?!? I think you should direct your efforts towards lobbying for a name change for the award - something like &quot;Most Empathic Student&quot; award or &quot;Kindest Student&quot; award. Alternatively, just start lobbying for a competitive award aimed directly at parents such as &quot;Best Rude Candy Maker&quot; award....The opportunities are endless.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Y&#8217;know &#8211; the whole title &#8220;principal pal&#8221; is just a little bit icky isn&#8217;t it? What exactly are they implying? It&#8217;s kind of inappropriate for a grown man or woman to have little kids as &#8220;pals&#8221; don&#8217;t you think? Is this some kind of Michael Jackson Award?!? I think you should direct your efforts towards lobbying for a name change for the award &#8211; something like &#8220;Most Empathic Student&#8221; award or &#8220;Kindest Student&#8221; award. Alternatively, just start lobbying for a competitive award aimed directly at parents such as &#8220;Best Rude Candy Maker&#8221; award&#8230;.The opportunities are endless.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Sins of the Mother by Iris</title>
		<link>http://beardediris.wordpress.com/2009/09/29/the-sins-of-the-mother/#comment-511</link>
		<dc:creator>Iris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Sep 2009 20:13:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Sally! Henceforth, I vow to always roll my eyes at the name Lindsey in your honor! Little bitch. Love it!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Sally! Henceforth, I vow to always roll my eyes at the name Lindsey in your honor! Little bitch. Love it!</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Sins of the Mother by Iris</title>
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		<dc:creator>Iris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Sep 2009 20:10:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I. LOVE. YOU.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I. LOVE. YOU.</p>
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